I’m starting to see, as the hurt and frustration fades, something will appear that takes me back in time to those difficult days. As my mind processes the problem, and how to best respond, I realize how far I have come in the past three years. Then I’m thankful for the ability to live a life free from fear and trepidation. Looking back, I did not want my marriage to end. But now I see an opportunity to be happy once again.