Family, Friends, Divorce

Over the past year or so, I have talked with many of my friends about what has occurred over the past several years. The one common thread in each of these conversations is the impact a divorce has beyond the failed marriage. Nearly everyone I talk to is still trying to make sense out of what has occurred. At the onset of a divorce, the lawyers instruct that immediate family members are to have no contact with the opposing family. Children may favor one parent over the other. Friends may remain with whomever they feel comfortable. Other people will try to remain friends with both partners but my experience, as well as talking with others in the same boat, this rarely works out. Eventually all will take a side. When we are willing to accept this consequence of divorce, then one can move forward in rebuilding their life.

And if a house is divided against itself, that house cannot stand.
~ Jesus ~

When my family and friends have finished processing their thoughts, I remind them that I am feeling better than I have in a long, long time. While divorce was not a desired path, it has brought peace, happiness, strengthen friendships and brought new friends into my life. For that I am grateful.

8 thoughts on “Family, Friends, Divorce

  1. It was hurtful, unbearable long process for you. It takes more than courage to walk through…, but your good heart leads you to peacefulness and happiness and accepts new friendships. I’m happy for you, Patrick! 🙂

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  2. YES! And I will be forever grateful for my newly discovered friendship. You are a loving gentleman, and I am so happy we have been able to share with one another along this rocky road. And even happier to share as we both make our way out the other side. Sigh…. Silver linings!

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